Online dating no views - Definitive Online Dating Guide: 12 Facts to Get You a Date.


Online dating is kind of like farting in public. Most people won't admit it, but plenty of them do it. Unlike farting in public, though, online dating's stigma is quickly going away. If you ask around, you'll be surprised how many people you know are doing it. It's not just internet-addicted geeks (myself notwithstanding).

@Wise Owl,
I agree with you that their behavior stems from fear, lack of confidence and self esteem issues. Those are certainly present.

But do you know what I REALLY think this is? Because I've seen in it younger generations with men on the Internet, too.

They want you to make it EASY on them. And when they realize that YOU'RE choosing a man and you're not sitting back, waiting for a man to choose you - they realize that there's competition and that they're going to have to work at this. They become resentful of that. They become resentful that they have to compete with other men. They get irritated that they can't pluck you off the Net, put a stamp on ya' and lay claim to you. They're being lazy and they're used to things going their way.

And I think a lot of these men lie. I really do. Because I meet men who say, "Women get much more attention there." But then, much later, they turn around and confess that they've had sex with 6 of them. How they can claim they get no attention and/or only date one woman at a time, but then confess having sex with many of them, is beyond me.

So maybe it's more like this. Yes, they date one woman at a time - until they have sex with her. Then they disappear on her - and move onto the next one. I've met many men who tell me that many of the women they've met online - show up on the first date with an overnight bag. Sigh.

Regardless of what they blokes are up to, yes, I think you're being too honest with them. I'm not saying you should lie. I'm saying you should just keep some things private with them is all.

So when they pry for information, say something vague and don't elaborate on it, no matter how much they push. Because truthfully, a stranger has no right to your business anyway. Especially when they're only going to use what you tell them to judge you.

So when posed with this question, "Are you dating or seeing anyone else?" You respond with, "I've met some nice people, but I haven't found my Mr. Right yet." Or, "I've dated others, but I'm not committed to anyone." Or simply say, "I haven't found the one I'm looking for yet." All of those statements signal to the man that YOU are doing the picking here and that they are not permitted to be privy to your personal life.

Or you could get flat out with them and say, "I really don't share personal information like that until I get to know someone."

Each of those statements puts the reality of the situation in front of their face. And the reality is - you don't have to answer to them. They have no right to the information they're asking for.

Don't play your cards on the Net. Hold them close to your chest. And remember that you don't have to answer to any of them. They're asking personal questions way too early. They don't need to know any of that information until after about 6 dates or so. Because if a guy sticks around that long, and then he asks that question, it's because he's considering taking it to another level. So that's when he deserves that information.

These guys just expect everything to be so damn easy for them there. Like, "Oh cool. Look, it's like a grocery store for women. Hmm, I'll think I'll take this one. Bag her up, I'm ready to go."

Tsk tsk, fellas. Gotta' put a little effort into it these days. Women no longer NEED men for financial reasons or living conditions. Women have their own money, their own homes. These days, you really have to be a solid man for a woman to relinquish her independence and put up with your ass, LOL ;-)

And the one's who delete your/their profile and leave - good riddens. They're lazy men who just want to pluck a woman off the shelf and dump her in their kitchen because dinner is to be served promptly at 5PM.

Umm, no thank you, LOL.


Online dating no views

Online dating no views